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Why People Don't Like to Discuss Politics

Sam has paid attention to the sharp decline in literacy among other tragic statistics.

Without having proper discussion, we can't learn from each other as much as we used to.

Without having proper discussion, we can't learn from each other as much as we used to.

On Schooling

You are being taught by people who have been able to accommodate themselves to a regime of thought laid down by their predecessors. It is a self-perpetuating system. Those of you who are more robust and individual than others will be encouraged to leave and find ways of educating yourself — educating your own judgements. Those that stay must remember, always, and all the time, that they are being moulded and patterned to fit into the narrow and particular needs of this particular society.

— Doris Lessing on Schooling

Our Education System Is Failing Us in More Than One Way

Our education system is a complete failure. Everyone is going around saying how important it is to educate our kids, and make sure the poor have access to quality education. But what do we really mean? Do we mean that we should change our system of education entirely? Well no, usually we mean to apathetically throw some tax dollars at the public schools and let them do what they will.

People graduate from high school without strong reading and writing skills. It's a sure sign that our society is falling into an intellectual void. Sure graduates may have lost their virginity, and granted that's not an insignificant achievement, dropping panties and all that, but their literacy and debate/critical thinking skills are severely lacking. So many kids are coming out of public schools with hardly anything to show for it. We essentially force kids to go to school so that they can finish and get a piece of paper that might as well say they're not retarded. But shouldn't we be aiming a little higher than that? If school was effective in educating kids it wouldn't take 12 god damn years to get them through. The real problem is that most kids don't even enjoy school, but they love learning. Why is that? Well because the longer they're in school the more they resent it, the less freedom they have the more stress they feel. When you're conditioned for over a decade to relate learning with stress, you're going to finish your education and have nothing but an aversion to learning.

So why are people so anxious when it comes to talks about religion or politics? Well because they haven't learned to critically think or debate, and they've been conditioned to relate learning with stress.

I urge you to examine in your own mind the assumptions which must lay behind using the police power to insist that once-sovereign spirits have no choice but to submit to being schooled by strangers.

— John Gatto

It Seems That People Are Afraid of Arguments

Another very serious psychological problem I've noticed in society is people's fear of arguments and debate. People relate the word argument to fighting. People tend to see arguments and debates as actually brawls. Subconsciously people have related debate to stress. So you'll see people talking about how they had an argument with their spouse or their kid, their friend, or whoever, and you'll notice that they're stressed out about it. As a society we don't know how to have productive arguments, to us, arguments trigger our natural flight-or-fight response. This has always left me curious, where can we find the source of this highly irrational fear of argumentation?

At first, they'll only dislike what you say, but the more correct you start sounding the more they'll dislike you.

— Criss Jami

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Escalation Can Frighten People

People are afraid of escalation. Why are people afraid of escalation in arguments, debates, and the exchange of ideas? Well, think back to when you were growing up. Let's imagine you're having an argument with your teacher and you prove him or her wrong in front of the whole class, or you're talking to your parents and you prove that their reasoning is faulty, well it's likely that in those times the situation would escalate. The teacher might yell at you to leave the class, or your parents might say you're "talking back" or "being rude" and they don't want to get "attitude" from you.

Does any of this sound familiar? Well for most of you it should. In this society of homo sapiens, we tend to have a strict hierarchy and when it is willfully broken and shown to be fragile people get upset. My point with all this is that people have been conditioned to subconsciously fear learning, debate, and argumentation. The exchange of ideas itself is made stressful through the operant conditioning of schools and parents, whether it is intentional or not. There are potentially lifelong effects when conditioning developing minds.

He who establishes his argument by noise and command, shows that his reason is weak.

— Michel de Montaigne

Fundamentals in History

So why exactly are people afraid of debate, learning, exchanging ideas, and discussing things of substance? Well I'm sure our answer can be found deep in the field of evolutionary biology. We were not modern humans for so long. Our brains are built on a tribal way of life, heavily relying on those around us, and relating ostracism with death. Take for example the Aztecs sacrificing a person to the gods. Imagine you are a member of this tribe. You could exercise a little critical thinking and statistical analysis and point out that removing the beating heart of your friend doesn't have the strongest correlation with the quality of the harvest. Speaking up about that will likely mean you will be heavily ostracized, you won't be able to reproduce, and you might even be banished from the tribe. This kind of tribal thinking is built into our heads. That's why your palms get sweaty when you speak up about a substantial idea relating to the whole tribe or society.

When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser

— Socrates

Modern Research Shows We Don't Like Discussing Things We Disagree On

A study on a phenomenon called the 'Spiral of Silence' found a number of striking truths about the nature of our fear of substance, debate, learning, and so on. The study took 1,801 adults and it focused on one important public issue: Edward Snowden’s 2013 revelations of widespread government surveillance of Americans’ phone and email records. They used that issue because Americans were cut in half on the issue. The study found that we are far less willing to discuss pertinent issues when our work colleagues, family, and friends are able to listen in, we are afraid of ostracism. As I pointed out earlier, this is a very excellent safeguard to increase short term survival and reproduction.

The study found:

  • 86% of Americans were willing to have an in-person conversation about the surveillance program, but just 42% of Facebook and Twitter users were willing to post about it on those platforms.
  • In both personal settings and online settings, people were more willing to share their views if they thought their audience agreed with them.
  • Previous ‘spiral of silence’ findings as to people’s willingness to speak up in various settings also apply to social media users.

Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.

— Friedrich Nietzsche

This content reflects the personal opinions of the author. It is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and should not be substituted for impartial fact or advice in legal, political, or personal matters.

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